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Keep on truckin’!
Todd+Cathy
Discussion & Time Stamps
2:25 Boarding School for my 14 year old son
25:55 Porn
31:35 Alcohol
47:17 Curfew
Resources
Listen, Allow, Support, Repeat
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12:02:54 From Elaine Vaughan to Todd Adams(Direct Message) : Victoria was a great participant on our RHS micro talk!
12:04:58 From Todd Adams : who wants to go after karni?
12:07:17 From Elaine Vaughan : Reacted to “who wants to go afte…” with 👍
12:15:38 From Matt McGarr : I just want to tell Victoria I love her plants
12:15:58 From Elaine Vaughan : I second that.
12:16:12 From victoria : Replying to “I second that.” it’s a fake background!
12:16:12 From Matt McGarr : I see that monsterr\a😍
12:16:16 From Matt McGarr : lol!
12:16:18 From Matt McGarr : I take it back
12:17:41 From Elaine Vaughan : How does your husband feel about it?
12:21:50 From Elaine Vaughan : If you aren’t gung ho Karni, does he receive that as you aren’t supporting him? Like is this a power struggle?
12:27:07 From Elaine Vaughan : I have a quick one…
12:28:29 From karni : If anyone has experience with college sports would love for you to message me. Thx!
12:28:30 From Elaine Vaughan : This was a great discussion…it sorta turned into what is “enabling” something we don’t want them to do…it went into drinking, etc. Great exploration…or how to disallow, and allow the curiosity kids have.
12:39:46 From Matt McGarr : well said, Kathy. Involve them in the process.
12:39:56 From Matt McGarr : Cathy*
12:44:24 From Matt McGarr : If we have time, I’d love to hear Todd talk about when his girls began dating. Now that I am about to be a father, I can already feel myself transforming into “protective dad” and I don’t like it, lol.
12:50:55 From Mary McDonough (she/her) : I have a 17-yr old daughter (and a 13-yr old son). This is with regard to the 17-yr old daughter – Though I sometimes do stay up, I ask her to always wake me up when she gets home.
12:53:15 From Mary McDonough (she/her) : Elaine: “….where I’m going to locate myself in all of this.” I love that!
12:55:21 From Elaine Vaughan : LISTEN TO HIM ON DHRU PRUOIT! This week!
12:56:09 From Millie Hsi (she, her, hers) : Sorry that I gotta run to an appointment. Always love seeing/hearing you guys.
12:56:20 From Mary McDonough (she/her) : Reacted to “Sorry that I gotta r…” with 👍
12:56:28 From Matt McGarr : My mom paid my brother to hold off for X amount of years on getting (more) tattoos when he was a young adult. He as glad she did
12:56:34 From Matt McGarr : was*
12:56:44 From karni : Reacted to “Sorry that I gotta r…” with ❤️
12:58:40 From Carrie Kelleher – Chicago : But also I have a girl and a boy, and my boy is NOT typical boy. Wise, gentle, not a bull in a china shop…So sometimes it doesn’t play out that way.
12:58:50 From Matt McGarr : Reacted to “But also I have a gi…” with ❤️
12:59:13 From Todd Adams : https://zenparentingradio.com/podcasts/420/ https://zenparentingradio.com/podcasts/listen-allow-support-repeat-episode-244/
12:59:17 From victoria : Reacted to “But also I have a gi…” with ❤️
12:59:51 From Elaine Vaughan : GREAT BOOK! Use Blinkist…app that synopses nonfiction books.
13:01:12 From Elaine Vaughan : Does he have a book too?
13:01:42 From Todd Adams : domitrz
13:03:53 From karni : Thank you !!
