Zen Talk# 109- Teenage Cutting & Spiral Dynamics
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:58 Centering
7:37 Cutting
18:50 Wrapping presents/invisible labor
20:39 SNL commercial- Xmas morning
23:50 Me, We, Us
32:40 Spiral Dynamics
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:58 Centering
7:37 Cutting
18:50 Wrapping presents/invisible labor
20:39 SNL commercial- Xmas morning
23:50 Me, We, Us
32:40 Spiral Dynamics
Discussion & Time Stamps
1:32 Centering
6:19 Rosalind’s elevator speech
7:40 What has worked regarding Covid regarding learning
15:09 What teachers learn about SEL
20:25 Homework- Do I drop the hammer?
28:04 Kids struggling with anxiety
31:44 5 components of happiness 1) Sense of purpose 2) Meaningful social connection 3) Curiosity 4) A place to find peace 5) Contributing to something bigger than oneself
34:50 Help my 13 year-old with SEL
50:00 “Negotiating” with our kids
1:27 Centering
6:04 Daughter has thoughts of self-harm
25:05 Update regarding 3 year old daughter who was touching herself @ “inappropriate” times/places
29:09 How do I respond when my 13 year old daughter is rude
46:49 10 year-old daughter is super hard on herself
55:09 I have fear about spending time with a family member.
1:00:33 Ryan’s awesome reveal
0:12 Centering
4:35 Barriers to intimacy
22:11 Resistance to initiate sex/intimacy
33:40 Teenagers intimacy issues through Covid
40:30 Husband wants to cuddle, I don’t
Discussion & Time Stamps
1:52 Centering
10:36 Kids talking back
21:55 15 year old daughter struggling with a break-up
34:00 Coping when a tragedy hits your community
46:17 Communication styles
55:00 Body awareness
Discussion & Time Stamps
1:03 Centering
3:31 Todd’s grief
13:15 Self-Judgment
26:12 Toddler melt downs
46:05 High school homework
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:15 Centering
3:55 The soother and the soothie
3-1/2 year old is touching herself in the family room
25:25 Scene from Parenthood
29:08 12 Year old daughter is wearing Cropped Tops and needs supporting language
41:12 My son has an IEP, but the school isn’t pulling their weight.
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:15 Centering
5:33 Tapping (Emotional Freedom Technique)
14:22 Math anxiety
24:05 Edibles
37:01 Raging 15 year old son
57:43 13 year old son who doesn’t want to go to therapy
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:00 Centering
6:41 17 year old daughter is anxious about school
26:55 7 year old son doesn’t want to do any virtual learning
46:36 Teenager’s room is a total mess
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:00 Centering
3:55 New Teammate Ryan has a podcast called “True North with Abby & Ryan”
7:43 I pushed my kids to do something they didn’t want to do and now they are grateful
19:31 My 3rd grader refuses to do virtual learning
46:54 My daughter was put into a different class- is this a problem?
Discussion & Time Stamps
1:38 Centering
7:51 Pep Talk For School?
23:00 Ambiguous Loss
27:08 Six Year Old Refuses To Get In Car
Discussion & Time Stamps
2:32 Centering
7:52 Friend not meeting expectations
27:37 Back to School?
38:52 Unmotivated 13 year old son
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:49 Centering
5:55 Covid Update
11:19 Dad has Alzheimers
26:00 Angel #’s
36:11 3 year-old melting down
51:52 13 year old similarities
Discussion & Time Stamps
1:22 Centering
5:31 I’m supporting my friend through marriage issues and now she says she doesn’t want my help.
27:00 My husband and I are not parenting from the same place.
45:13 Need help with the teen/tween years
Discussion & Time Stamps
:25 Centering
4:10 Todd’s fear about going back to normal
10:19 White Fragility Pushback
32:55 18 year old son is listening to music with the “N” word.
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:19 Centering
2:20 9 year old son watches has too much screen time
19:00 I have a 2 month old and a 5 year old- Am I doing this right?
43:25 13 year old daughter is struggling getting her outside
54:05 Depression- is this normal?
59:23 Monday morning Guided meditation opportunity
Discussion & Time Stamps
Discussion & Time Stamps
49 What’s going on this month
8:49 I’m afraid my 11 year old son is going to struggle through the summer.
25:05 I’m having a tough time speaking up when in the presence of racist comments
51:49 I sometimes feel guilty for being white
Discussion & Time Stamps
0:00 Updates To Team Zen Membership Directory
6:26 Happiness Leaks
12:36 George Floyd commentary
23:24 My husband gets angry and I’m not sure how to facilitate repair
44:24 My 10 year old daughter is angry
Discussion & Time Stamps
4:28 End of the school year
Nudity, Anger, Gaming, & Veganism
13:02 I would love advice/resources on how to navigate nudity and self-exploration/touching in young children
22:52 My 7-1/2 year old son is angry and I’m looking for support
42:48 My 13-1/2 year son is gaming and sleeping in late. Help.
53:30 I am a vegan and need support around my judgment of other people’s behaviors