Zen Talk #165- The Sisters Project Talks Birth & Death

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Discussion & Time Stamps
9:55 Is dementia happening now more than when we grow up? 
19:08 Advice for a first time parent?
25:43 Pivot!!!
30:49 Any regrets as you cared for your mom in her last stages of life? 
34:17 Succession spoiler
38:20 End of spoiler
42:17 Should I have been more assertive when I was caring for my mom?  
48:10 “Woo woo” experiences 

Zen Talk #164- Understanding our Daughters with Special Guest Jacey Adams

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Discussion & Time Stamps
4:08 Lack of therapists
5:15 Are we over-pathologizing our girls
8:00 Weight loss drugs
9:25 Are we blaming our girls
13:00 Ages of daughters of the people on the call
17:13 Asked Jacey Adams (20 years old) what kids are struggling with
26:49 13 year old daughter- how much do i push to get the conversation started
33:09 17 year old daughter struggling with anxiety, depression, and disordered eating.  Should I push therapy onto her?  
43:39 19 year old with anxiety/depression/suicidal ideation- how hard should i push her to start doing doing “adult things?”
55:32 Navigating body image for my 16 year old daughter
1:09:44 How can I be a better father to my unborn daughter?
1:21:36 Positive things from Gen Z

Zen Talk #161 with Dr. Shefali Tsabary

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Discussion & Time Stamps
1:00 Centering
2:48 Boundaries
10:31 Porn
16:15 Ex-husband and his new girlfriend
25:06 How do I support my daughters in therapy?
30:36 My 12 year old’s anger holds us hostage
36:54 I’m worried about my son in a way that I’m not worried about my daughter
48:23 Should I seek outside support for my sons?

TZO (Team Zen Only) Podcast- Intuition or Fear?

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Hi everybody, Hope you enjoy our very first TZO (Team Zen Only) Podcast where we discussed the differences between intuition and fear. Our next Zen talk #160 will be on Tuesday, February 7th @ 12 PM Central on zoom You can quickly look up topics on previous Zen Talks by using the search function in the Circle platform Our Zen …

Zen Talk #159 School Advocacy, Willful Daughters, & Report Cards

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Discussion & Time Stamps
0:00 Welcome & Team Zen Circle Update
4:58 Centering
9:54 Breaking up twins in school or not?
20:23 Willful 7 year old daughter is sometimes defiant and unwilling to listen
32:48 Should I advocate for my 8th grader at school or let her advocate for herself
45:52 14 year old son feels pressured and his grades are below our expectations

Jayson Gaddis- Zen Talk #158 Communication, Projections, & Feedback

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Discussion & Time Stamps
0:00 Intro
6:33 The Dorsal vagal (back side) of the vagus nerve responds to cues of danger. How does this knowledge help us in conflict?
14:06 When in stress, I lose my ability to communicate and my partner over-communicates with words
27:35: When the other person won’t change
36:10 The danger of looking up to people
40:22 When people are teaching you knowledge that you already know
47:25 Todd reveals projection onto Jayson
49:59 How does Jayson show up in relationship with his wife?
52: 09 How to do feedback

Dr. John Duffy- Zen Talk #153- Nudes, Teenage Friendships,& Raising Boys

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Discussion & Time Stamps
2:02 Centering
4:13 13 year old daughter is hanging out with the wrong people
15:08 15 year old son might be sexually active
34:15 What’s the impact of the pandemic
29:52 Nudes
44:20 14 year old son struggling with focus.  Should we get him tested?
44:28 Two teenage boys struggling with emotional expression/boy crisis