Would you make your kids wear a sign that says, “I’m a thief?”  Or would you shoot your child’s computer and then post it on Facebook?  Maybe not, but have you ever humiliated your child in front of their friends or family?  Cathy and Todd discuss the shame involved in humiliation and why we need to “wake up” before making a choice that could negatively effect our children.  They also discuss yelling and fighting in front of your kids and how it can change their sense of safety, the way they feel about themselves, and the way they communicate with others.