Why do some parents make their kids sit on Santa’s lap?  Are your holidays chaotic?  Cathy and Todd want to know why….do you feel like you have to go to the cookie exchange and you have to see Santa?  Instead of the have-tos, celebrate the season YOUR way!  They also discuss the importance of being present for the season and for the gift opening.  Todd decides he wants to “control” gift opening this year, but Cathy doesn’t agree.  How do you manage the craziness of gift-giving?