Did you view the commencement speech about the kids not being special?  Do you think the speaker is right?  Do you believe that “trophies for everyone” is a bad idea? Cathy and Todd discuss what makes someone “special” and why making everything about “being the best” isn’t good for our kids.  Can we help our kids understand that they are special without making them compete for it?  Can we help our children appreciate competition without making them think that it somehow dictates who they are?